In my opinion, it depends on the person. I, myself, believe there is no such thing. Still, there are people out there (both guys and girls) who can regress their emotions and focus on gratification only. Most of the time, if it's "just sex", you will find one of the participants who has feelings one way or the other. You typical "bed buddies" will say they have no feelings for each other but I don't believe it at all. I think that no matter who you have sex with, you are somehow emotionally connected to that moment and person. People who regress their emotions or think they just are having sex are sadly mistaken and will have emotional problems down the road. These problems will involve intimacy issues as well as commitment issues. If you could do a study on this, I bet you would find some interesting results. Bottom line is that we are all human and we all have emotions that most of us cannot explain in words. Sure we have animal instincts, but we are more human than animal.
so i've been thinking about this...lenwaFebruary 28 2006, 15:16:18 UTC
and i really have no legs to stand on here...so to speak...but here are my thoughts...
i kinda feel like even if a person says it's meaningless sex there is still a part of them that doesn't believe that...
maybe that's niave...but i think that no matter what there is an emotional attachment, just like buck said it can be repressed...which i suppose could potentially lead to commitment issues, but i dunno...that's a little too psychotherapy for me...so who can say...
i definitely agree with his bottom line...we're all emotional beings just on different leaves, so we are more human than animalistic and meaningless sex appears to be more animalistic...
gah, i don't think i made any sense...sorry...i tried to compose my thoughts...it just didn't work out as i had planned...perhaps you can decipher it anyway...love!
And maybe im saying this because I can be a heartless fuck sometimes but I do beleive that two people can just want to have to sex, to have sex. And thats it. But you will kill me anyway later and then drown me at Dauphin Island anyway. So not like any of this will matter anyway.
you can't disconnect meaning from sex... no matter if your heart is in it or not it will change you, affect you, manipulate you in someway...
even if you can't tell now, one day you'll realize that something you thought was so simple and trivial before was actual really meaningful and momentous...
and if you are at a point where there is no emotion behind it, what's the point? buy a rabbit if you have to, but don't waste yourself for something so pointless, and so risky...
if you are letting someone use your body just for sex, or if you are using their body just for sex... that's pretty bad.
If ya really want MY two cents.sweet_lady_jessMarch 4 2006, 05:21:07 UTC
False. Sex can definately be meaningless, as long as you switch partners frequently. It's when you sleep with a person repeatedly that you start to attach to them.
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i kinda feel like even if a person says it's meaningless sex there is still a part of them that doesn't believe that...
maybe that's niave...but i think that no matter what there is an emotional attachment, just like buck said it can be repressed...which i suppose could potentially lead to commitment issues, but i dunno...that's a little too psychotherapy for me...so who can say...
i definitely agree with his bottom line...we're all emotional beings just on different leaves, so we are more human than animalistic and meaningless sex appears to be more animalistic...
gah, i don't think i made any sense...sorry...i tried to compose my thoughts...it just didn't work out as i had planned...perhaps you can decipher it anyway...love!
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And maybe im saying this because I can be a heartless fuck sometimes but I do beleive that two people can just want to have to sex, to have sex. And thats it. But you will kill me anyway later and then drown me at Dauphin Island anyway. So not like any of this will matter anyway.
Coors light to the end.
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you can't disconnect meaning from sex... no matter if your heart is in it or not it will change you, affect you, manipulate you in someway...
even if you can't tell now, one day you'll realize that something you thought was so simple and trivial before was actual really meaningful and momentous...
and if you are at a point where there is no emotion behind it, what's the point? buy a rabbit if you have to, but don't waste yourself for something so pointless, and so risky...
if you are letting someone use your body just for sex, or if you are using their body just for sex... that's pretty bad.
just in my humble opinion
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But, I'm just a whore..soo...
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