In my experience this is not true, but I do find that men are capable of arousal in almost any situation while females most be in favorable conditions to spark sexual behavior.
Went on to wish you a happy upcoming bday and browsed your posts. While I never wanted to believe that all women do not like sex, I can tell you that in my ltr (19 years), it had evolved to the point where my initiation of sex either led to a begging session (which I found to be demeaning) or an argument. So, I am working, somewhat successfully, at letting go of my attraction and desire for her in order to preserve my own sanity and self worth. She will initiate sex once or twice a month when she desires it which is also a bit annoying. Realizing that these things are very complicated, I suggested to her that we end the marriage and continue to be friends which she opposes as "she loves me more than life itself". Sounds a bit hard to believe given the current state of the relationship. At any rate, I am an older guy but am not dead yet so I have been considering a discreet side relationship which violates my personal values or to go ahead and initiate divorce proceedings. Sorry to ramble on but I was heartened to read your post and
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