First, let me start by saying I HATE WORK! I have no time for me anymore. We've been so busy at work I haven't been able to check email..let alone update here. I know..I know..that's not what they pay me to do..but I miss it
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All I have to say is that fighting in front of the kids while not totally cool is better than going into the garage/basement/car/bedroom and fighting and making the kids wonder who is going to come back alive...kids know you are fighting whether you do it in front of them or not.
The only other thing you can do is sort of watch what you say when you are fighting 'I could just kill you' sounds awful to a kid because they don't know if you mightn't just do that.
Hopefully you will get the rough edges worn off of hubby and get to where your fights are more like discussions before baby is much bigger. PS have you considered 'buddy' in place of bunny when he gets bigger?
I think every couple goes through this stuff (re-examining the relationship)at some point especially after a big, life changing event in their lives
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very very sage advice. Youa re perfectly right. I should step back and analyze..and most likely just ignore..controversial topics. It will be very hard to do. once my scruff is raised it takes alot for it to settle...but, obviously one of us needs to step back..and since i KNOW he won't...thank you dear :)
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The only other thing you can do is sort of watch what you say when you are fighting 'I could just kill you' sounds awful to a kid because they don't know if you mightn't just do that.
Hopefully you will get the rough edges worn off of hubby and get to where your fights are more like discussions before baby is much bigger.
PS have you considered 'buddy' in place of bunny when he gets bigger?
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