The next morning, I had an appointment with the cemetary at 9:30, to take care of that whole real estate biz before going to the funeral home in the afternoon.
I remember going through this when my father died. It was heart rending. My ex and Gran Alice Bitch Queen of the Universe were not asa supportive as your wonderful mate. You are indeed blessed. Just remember that it is okay to lean on him... oh wait, make that; it is okay for you to lean on him. Remember your vows.
Marriage is give and take. Just as there will be times that he needs to lean on you, there are times when you need to lean on him. And for those of us who have been in... interesting... relationships and/or had ... interesting... childhoods, this can be difficult. Don't be afraid to look at yourself in the mirror and say, "It's okay. My mother loves me. She knows that I will always do my best. My husband loves me. He will always be there when I need him so that I will not falter nor fall, but have a shoulder to cry on and a rock upon which to lean.
I love you.
For every post there will be hugs and purrs... and a reminder...
May the memories of love outweigh the grief of loss.
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Marriage is give and take. Just as there will be times that he needs to lean on you, there are times when you need to lean on him. And for those of us who have been in... interesting... relationships and/or had ... interesting... childhoods, this can be difficult. Don't be afraid to look at yourself in the mirror and say, "It's okay. My mother loves me. She knows that I will always do my best. My husband loves me. He will always be there when I need him so that I will not falter nor fall, but have a shoulder to cry on and a rock upon which to lean.
I love you.
For every post there will be hugs and purrs... and a reminder...
May the memories of love outweigh the grief of loss.
We love you.
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