Wow. The fact that you kept her as an LJ friend past the first of these transgressions (let alone *three*!!) should be a sign to her that you were being sincere. I'm pretty amazed you tolerated that behavior for long enough to be having this conversation.
I feel sorry for your husband who is unaware of her toxic behavior. If there is one thing that all your friends, both online and IRL, know about you for sure, it's that bullshit is not your style.
So very sorry you have to go through all this. I know you're just trying to make the best of a really difficult situation.
I see no need to screen this, unless you prefer to.
Eh, I don't know about toxic, but she certainly is quick to think ill of people -- me in this case. I thought my email was fair enough, considering that she continued to repeat stuff to my husband after I posted an open warning about repeating stuff -- twice! "Never contact me again" seems a bit harsh, but if that's what she wants, so be it.
I don't mind that she repeated your comment to my husband, because this is an unlocked post. :)
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responses like that are awful.
i'm sorry and am wishing you let that slide off your thoughts and feelings.
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So very sorry you have to go through all this. I know you're just trying to make the best of a really difficult situation.
I see no need to screen this, unless you prefer to.
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I don't mind that she repeated your comment to my husband, because this is an unlocked post. :)
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