**Why is it that people seem to think I can give advice about having an ED but not about eating sensibly or recovering?**
This is something I value about you; you can and do give good advice because you have "been there", and are still there in many ways. You didn't get there because you are stupid. You learned some lessons the hard way and I know that you would never give anyone bad advice. I know that because I have seen you give good advice so many times.
**I whole heartily believe that you do not get a true ED because it's cool or a good way to lose weight, you develop an ED because some fault line in you all along is triggered.**
I agree with that, but would interject that something has to trigger that in all of us. This is what scares me about *dieters* on pro-ed websites. We all began somewhere. Extreme dieting can lead to an eating disorder
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See, and I'm so fucking self-absorbed I automatically question my last comments and posts and think"Yeah, she's right that's all I ever ask about" and then feel like a skank. I, automatically, assume I'm one of the people you are talking about (and you may have been). Damn, when did I get so psychotic, needy, dependent, guilt-ridden, ad infinitum. *sigh* okay. that's done
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Hey you. I caught part of the TV drama “Numb3rs” and the mathematician was talking about the P vs NP problem that can’t be solved so that got me thinking of you and wondering if that was a real problem. Then last night on PBS they were talking about string theory and the mathematical equations involved so that got me to wondering if there are different kinds of disciplines in mathematics that you might study or specialize in and if so, what kind are you studying? J
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**Why is it that people seem to think I can give advice about having an ED but not about eating sensibly or recovering?**
This is something I value about you; you can and do give good advice because you have "been there", and are still there in many ways. You didn't get there because you are stupid. You learned some lessons the hard way and I know that you would never give anyone bad advice. I know that because I have seen you give good advice so many times.
**I whole heartily believe that you do not get a true ED because it's cool or a good way to lose weight, you develop an ED because some fault line in you all along is triggered.**
I agree with that, but would interject that something has to trigger that in all of us. This is what scares me about *dieters* on pro-ed websites. We all began somewhere. Extreme dieting can lead to an eating disorder ( ... )
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