GaaaHHHHH!
So, we might not be buying a house, primarily because Taj and I are having some major disagreements about some fundamental issues.
I'm allergic to grass. I physically cannot mow a lawn without my eyes swelling shut and my throat closing up. Allergy medicine, with the exception of benadryll which has the effect of putting me in a coma, does not help - except by maybe preventing worser symptoms.
Initially we had a deal in that Taj was going to mow the lawn, and I would try hard not to drop dead while he did so.
Then it turned into "I'll take care of the front yard but that back yard is your buisness." which kinda worked out as my primary house choice thus far had a small backyard which is mostly brick patio.
Now it's turned into, "I'm not mowing the lawn, I'm going to rip up the grass and put rocks in."
WTF?
In turn, I've flat out stated that I wouldn't be buying a house with him. I don't think he believed me.
Of course, I could always rip out all the grass in the front yard myself, plant a bazillion flowers ala English Garden and get a bee hive.
Always wanted to be a bee-keeper.
In the short term I probably won't be needing that down payment money so badly and might be going to tribal fest after all. Sleeping on the floor in a overcrowded room. In California. Where it's sunny.
I'm allergic to grass. I physically cannot mow a lawn without my eyes swelling shut and my throat closing up. Allergy medicine, with the exception of benadryll which has the effect of putting me in a coma, does not help - except by maybe preventing worser symptoms.
Initially we had a deal in that Taj was going to mow the lawn, and I would try hard not to drop dead while he did so.
Then it turned into "I'll take care of the front yard but that back yard is your buisness." which kinda worked out as my primary house choice thus far had a small backyard which is mostly brick patio.
Now it's turned into, "I'm not mowing the lawn, I'm going to rip up the grass and put rocks in."
WTF?
In turn, I've flat out stated that I wouldn't be buying a house with him. I don't think he believed me.
Of course, I could always rip out all the grass in the front yard myself, plant a bazillion flowers ala English Garden and get a bee hive.
Always wanted to be a bee-keeper.
In the short term I probably won't be needing that down payment money so badly and might be going to tribal fest after all. Sleeping on the floor in a overcrowded room. In California. Where it's sunny.