it'll all float off when the world stops turning around

[anewworldcalls]

i should be seeing a therapist because i have some serious problems. I'm trying, i'm trying really hard this time. I don't know why i can't just let him like me, why i have to find little things about him that annoy me. I'm fighting it, i really am. Because i really think i like this one. and it really might work out. it really might turn into

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[anonymous]

high standards are hard to get over.
i have those but not with other people, with myself only, and it kind of makes everything way harder.

i went to the counseling center here and it's amazing. some therapists are not so amazing- (currently i have one who argues with me about why i didnt pay attention in high school physics, ETC, it's like... who the fuck cares? the whole point it that i'm fucked NOW...)
but the counseling center is free, i recommend it.

oh, and you're beautiful and charming and witty and blah blah blah.
let's cut the shit. we all know i'm just trying to get in your pants.

rizzle

[anonymous]

to add onto my above comment, i think that sometimes you might think you dont deserve a guy but then maybe find out he's not perfect either? and that's annoying?
i think it's about being happy where you are and not overthinking "i am right am i this am i that" or thinking 'is this situation right/ is he right" etc
it's about being in the present momement and enjoying it and NOT thinking out of that moment.

which, granted, is really hard to do... okay that's all.

rizzle the fizzle

[theocfan87]

let yourself have fun. if he's not "the one" thats fine: that's dating.

the attainable ones are a lot more awesome than you are giving them credit... safe= boring. risk = fun

xo

[anonymous]

look, just go down on a bunch of guys.

then pick from that pool.

it's never failed me.

-graham

[anonymous]

Safety can be really good, but it's really scary to let yourself get to that level. But once your there, it's really nice.

Or just marry your bass.

-Claire "doesn't have a good nickname" Carrabba

[anonymous]

I'm gonna go with graham on this one

fuckin

yea