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[angel_bee]

Can you believe my parents still aren't divorced?! They've yet to even go to trial after a year and a half of legal bullshit. I don't even know what to think anymore. I know conceptually my dad is a complete asshole, but with me, he's generally a great parent. Oh, he has his moments, and I was quickly disillusioned of that "my parent is perfect

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[seamusjr]

you gotta love parents... but i hope everythign else is okay... my parents never divorced but they were the type that would have been better without having children ya know.. so if you need anyone to chat with about it... im here... it's also amazing that you can leave and become so far out of the loop that it just pisses you the fuck off.. its nice not knowing but you really would like to know... but hopefully one day it will be over... :-)

[sunshine6322]

What's taking so long? I know you're dad may have been horrible to your mom and caused her alot of grief, but if you're dad has been good to you I don't think you should be mad at him. He still takes care of you and he loves you, don't be mad at him for something he did to your mom. Your mom shouldn't have been so horrible to you. It wasn't your fault your dad was cheating on her or whatever he was doing. Maybe she was just hurt, but from what I think of her based on what I've heard from you, I don't think I would blame your dad for cheating on her. I don't know, I hope I didn't offend you, I was just posting what it sounds like to me.

P.S. You'll be a great mom, you already are! I miss you!! :)

[alligk08]

Hillbilly- you will always have a family with us. Even though we might screw up and make mistakes, we will always love you and be there for you. I can't wait to see my sister again!! Love you girl!

Yeah, so I'm a little late, but...

[deirdre_marie]

Coming from someone who has had a turbulent and stormy relationship with my mom since I was old enough to pick out my own clothes (and she had a VERY good husband, so that's no excuse)...I've learned to separate my feelings for my mom. I know that in her mentally retarded way she loves me. The more she calls me a slut and a loser and stupid, the more she cares. I used to hate her for it...especially when she did it in front of my friends, but I realized that she was never talking to me exactly...she saw me and thought of herself at my age and wanted to say those things. That, of course, may have absolutely nothing to do with your mom, but what I'm trying to say is that women who are going through a lot of guilt or stress or self hate usually take it out on others...not themselves. It's taken a lot of work, but I've found out that I can be absolutely irate with my mother (of course she doesn't realize it, cause she doesn't care if I'm mad) and still tell her I love her and call her Mommy and do all the things that make her happy. Of