Very Surprising News

Sep 20, 2009 00:24

I have some very recent news I feel like I need to share with people. @_ ( Read more... )

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oui_je_danse September 20 2009, 09:06:29 UTC
Any particular reason your parents are upset?

Our generation of women is unique in that we late longer to get married but then are less likely to divorce. I would take heart in the time it's taking you to settle down.

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angelicmousegrl September 20 2009, 23:16:18 UTC
Thank you for the comforting words about our generation, but my issues don't fully stem from jealousy of him getting married first.

My brother having always been younger than me gives my mind perception issues where I kind of still see him in a younger kid brother sort of way, I know that isn't logical, but I don't seem to be able to shake it out of my head.

Then there is the fact that none of my family and I got to attend their wedding. This part makes me quite sad, now I won't get to help with planning anything or being in the wedding party even. I do understand that some people don't like big weddings and such, but not even attending the ceremony no matter how informal feels wrong and none of us had any advance notice.

I apologize, this reply wasn't supposed to get this lengthy.

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krepander September 20 2009, 11:40:24 UTC
Happy belated birthday! :)

I can understand it being a shock. I think it will be no matter what unless it's something you really want. I remember when I announced our engagement they all lost their breath for 10 seconds afterward, but they had been betting on whether I came home from Lynnwood married just a few days before:P

I can understand your mom's reaction too. Is it that she doesn't think it was the best time, or is she upset that he didn't do it so she could have been there? I still feel so bad for my dad not being there:(

I wish you best of luck and as little family drama as possible.

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angelicmousegrl September 20 2009, 23:03:05 UTC
My parents are fairly old fashioned people is part of their problem with this.
My mom is seeing them as being too young and probably not ready, and not being able to be at the wedding has all of us upset I think.

Thank you for the birthday wishes! =)

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