I'm a Dutch BDSM lover (switsch) and as psycholgist I can tell you that the world of the BDSM is all about compremise the"empty" feeling our leck on being loves in the past and childhood !And to be a "good"slave or "good"Master or Mistress makes you feel good! and brings great satisfaction ,and by the time ...it can take years or months you start to get more and more in the "midle"and your soul gets more satisfied ! You will feel more in you "right"skin and live gets happier ans easier ! And when you can say i'm satified with my daily live and ones in wile there are real high lights ,beleive me you done well! regards Joseph !!
The idea of being normal is so vague that it would be hard to pinpoint a definition that multiple people could agree on. That is due to the fact we all have different beliefs and thoughts. Since we are shaped by the experiences we live with.
So normal is different for everyone. But I can say this. That you two fight so much is a sign that you do care for each other. But it's the differences that make it hard. An agreement needs to be found so you can both be comfortable to an extent.
But I do believe that you have the right mind set overall for a Submissive. I would say it is definitely who you are. But it's hard on your Master who seems to want different things. I don't know you well dear. But if you can start to find faith in yourself as as submissive and his partner. Things can begin to look up.
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So normal is different for everyone. But I can say this. That you two fight so much is a sign that you do care for each other. But it's the differences that make it hard. An agreement needs to be found so you can both be comfortable to an extent.
But I do believe that you have the right mind set overall for a Submissive. I would say it is definitely who you are. But it's hard on your Master who seems to want different things. I don't know you well dear. But if you can start to find faith in yourself as as submissive and his partner. Things can begin to look up.
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