Change my LJ page "adjusting friend only"

Aug 12, 2006 22:23


For personal reason, I decide to rechange my journal again. I will unfriend most people who I never communicate with before and I will not be friend any who I don't know. I don't want anyone who is not my friend to share my thought or my nonsense babbling. I know it sound strange but I really sorry because in here, you never know who is really your ( Read more... )

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eliriel August 12 2006, 19:39:01 UTC
I really understand what you mean.In my short LJ life i saw many friends,suffer from harsh words,bad comments,even feel uneasy in their own world because of people who doesn't care about others feelings.I follow you from the beginning and I always saw your care with people ,even when you need to make a not so ''good'' comment.Hope you feel better after you told people about your motives.I think that your real friends will understand and support you.
((((((hugs))))))

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zoolady August 12 2006, 20:34:51 UTC
Hey chin up pet!
Insensitive people are just that - insensitive - they probably just find it ease to be type like that without any concept of the pain/anguish/upset they cause others. Try to ignore them if you can. Don't let it totally ruin your LJ experience. I don't write or do ingenious things with images etc but I love to read stories and see pictures and icons - don't always comment either. Hope things improve for you soon. As eliriel1 said - your real friends will support you no matter what. Now go have a good weekend and start off fresh on Monday.

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kleinmeli August 12 2006, 22:13:39 UTC
I understand the feeling...and I'm see the reason behind the big cut *hug*

But you took me off :( *sniffle*
I liked reading you posts and I like you art...but...oh well...you had you reasons :)

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angstman August 13 2006, 04:09:49 UTC
sorry,, I just pretty sleepy last night!!!! So so sorry. How can I not add you. Your icon is always the cutest!!!

your icon are crying... send you a big hankerchief and hug you tighgtly.

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teamane August 12 2006, 22:18:14 UTC
I'm with you, too.
I read some nasty comments around by LJ users and by anonimous and I still can't understand why they are mean just for no reason. I don't like femslash stories but I don't go to the communities read it and then comment with bad feelings! So I don't get why people insist on reading and comment things they don't like. I find it provocative and insensitive. I agree with Eliriel and Zoolady. Your real LJ friends will always be on your side.
Talk (bad things) behind one's back is a little coward, I think. Sometimes things can be misunderstand; there are many non-english people around here and some things sometimes are not writen right. I don't know what happened to you but I'm very soory, 'cause it's very unfair. You have always been so right and kind in all your posts and comments I read.
I'm rambling a lot, sorry. ^.^

I love your 'Friend Only' banner.
*big hug*
:D

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stonestepper August 13 2006, 01:30:46 UTC
I am so sorry for any hurt you have felt because of a few person's insensitivity. You were one of the first to encourage me with such kindness. I will always be grateful. That being said, I have always looked forward to your stories with anticipation. Please let me keep reading?

Hugging you in my heart,
Wendy

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