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Okay guys. I'm really looking for some good advice here. Maybe you can help me, or maybe I just really need to look inside myself.
Wes and I have been dating for 3 months or so. A little more. Anyway, everything just felt so good and perfect and real. We have fun, I think we're very compatible.
I fell in love. I couldn't believe it either, but I did.
Recently (as in the last few days), Wes has made known to me that he is not sure that he wants to commit to me. He doesn't love me, and he thinks things moved too fast. He wants to date other people, and yet he still wants us to be together.
I want us to be together, as well. The problem is that I have a fear that he only wants to be with me because he knows I'm a sure thing; if he, by chance, doesn't find anything else, he can always fall back on me.
I'm hurting, whether it's because I'm still with him and thinking this, or because I don't want it to end...
Has anyone encountered this before? I just need someone to talk to...Thanks guys.
~Anna