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[annersg]

I received an email from my mom (the one I posted) and it made me laugh out loud and kinda sad at the same time. Jennifer and I did a LOT of talking about our childhood and youth last night and I was realizing that I've never talked to someone outside of my family who said, "yeah, I had some fucked up shit in my life too!" It was intense and

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[ladyfrancesca]

I totally understand where you are coming from. I think it would be good to subtly work in Dan's name. It sucks to have to be vigilant about respect of your life with the people who should automatically love and respect you, but that isn't how life works. So till then, just know that there are tons of people who do love and respect you. And are really happy that you are in their lives i.e. me! I am so glad that we are friends. For 2 years I felt that the people I had invested time and energy into were not giving it back to me, but then along came you & Dan. Seriously, I really value our friendship and look forward to deepening it.

[annersg]

10-4 on everything you said.

I also wanted to add that I really appreciate you sharing lots of personal info about you and listening to me share about myself. No, we didn't have the most horrible lives ever but they're still our lives and worth talking about.

I was having fantasies last night of living together and how we could feast and talk all the time! That said, I was thinking that we would also be good roommies because we are all people who like alone time and respect other peoples' time. I think we would all be conscious of giving each other space becauase it's something that is important to each of us. Obviously there would still be potential problems but I don't think it would be as touchy as living with someone else, you know?

[ladyfrancesca]

I was totally happy to share with you and be shared with. My favorite thing is to have a long conversation with someone where it is equal give and take and both of us feel comfortable enough to share really personal info.

I totally have had the same fantasies of us living together. I really think you are right. All three of us have really good chemistry together and individually. I really don't think it would turn sour for any of us and in a lot of ways it might be really good for us. I keep fearing the same thing will happen that happened with my previous roommate, but you two are completely different from him and I am much different, stronger, and more mature than I was before so I would handle things differently too. So, I do think we would be good as roommates.