Okay, I have to say the bedside manor of your obgyn SUCKS! I am not one to swear, but that makes me swear. I am so sorry for your loss, and so sorry the staff did that to you. When my ob had to leave on my follow up appointment, she said to my husband and I that she had to go take care of something (could have been a c-section/delivery/miscarriage/personal issue). She didn't mention it out of respect. We were in a room as usual, but there were no others beside us. She told us we could leave and then come back later, which we did do. So much should have been done for you, better than what happened. She did annoy me by offering anti-depressants when I should be freaking mourning my baby
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As to your ob, I scheduled an extra appointment one time just to talk with her. She actually suggested it, and it made all the difference. I scheduled it for a morning time. Sure, we may have paid extra for it, but it was important to us. We got a chance to just talk and ask questions. She had recommendations for us. I gave her some phone numbers I found that help women dealing with miscarriage (support groups in the area) and suggested she could have them for future reference. She may not use them, but she took the numbers. If you have complaints about your ob (I did about a nurse on staff) you can write your hospital or call. I wrote and got a response very quickly...and a social worker talked with me. She even sent a book on grief and miscarriage
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I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I read first about it in miscarriage. I have had two pregnancy losses, late in pregnancy, and lost 4 children between the two. I understand someo f what you're going through at this time...
Just wanted to know if you wanted to be friends. *hugs to you*
My last loss, my triplets, were born on November 10, 2005. You'll be able to go back and read about them...I lost Nathaniel, Emma and Samantha at 20 weeks. They were born due to premature labor that couldn't be reversed. They lived about an hour before passing away.
My first loss was August 24, 2004, and you can go back to read about him as well. I lost Alex at 23 weeks. He was stillborn, due to no amniotic fluid and chromosonal abnormailities.
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And no one can. But I hope writing about it, and sharing it, helps. Thank you for sharing this with us.
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Just wanted to know if you wanted to be friends. *hugs to you*
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My last loss, my triplets, were born on November 10, 2005. You'll be able to go back and read about them...I lost Nathaniel, Emma and Samantha at 20 weeks. They were born due to premature labor that couldn't be reversed. They lived about an hour before passing away.
My first loss was August 24, 2004, and you can go back to read about him as well. I lost Alex at 23 weeks. He was stillborn, due to no amniotic fluid and chromosonal abnormailities.
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please remember that.
love,
yourfellowgangster.
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