Is he really not a caring person or does he just show it in such subtle ways its hard to pick up on?
I know plenty of people think Max isn;t a caring/affectionate person, but I know that when he does soemthing most people would think is really normal (like talk to me instead of watch tv) that shows he cares. He is very much for himself, it took me a while to get used to it.
If you need any help witht eh vtac site jsut let me know. What course are you looking at?
Where do you live? Maybe you could do some sort of volunteer work somewhere.. even if you can only handle it for an hour. It'll be something to do, you'll meet new people and it'll look really great on your resume.
I think that problem is I'm not sure, he says that he shows it in other ways but I think sometimes their so subtle I don't notice. I guess I'm still getting used to it, my ex was over caring (which drove me insane) so it feels like I've gone to the other end of it.
Actually I rang Vtac and got a really nice person who helped me out which was great, the brain fog still comes sometimes so I just got way to confused.
I've thought about volunteering with kids/teenagers but the amount of red tape and the hours they want you to do (all in normal working hours, so I would have to put off work) really put me off.
I think the main thing is that cause I was by myself for so long every time I get bored/lonely I get upset cause I think it's going back like that.
LJ is my vent and rant place, whcih is good cause I get lovely people like you to give my advice :)
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I know plenty of people think Max isn;t a caring/affectionate person, but I know that when he does soemthing most people would think is really normal (like talk to me instead of watch tv) that shows he cares. He is very much for himself, it took me a while to get used to it.
If you need any help witht eh vtac site jsut let me know. What course are you looking at?
Where do you live? Maybe you could do some sort of volunteer work somewhere.. even if you can only handle it for an hour. It'll be something to do, you'll meet new people and it'll look really great on your resume.
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Actually I rang Vtac and got a really nice person who helped me out which was great, the brain fog still comes sometimes so I just got way to confused.
I've thought about volunteering with kids/teenagers but the amount of red tape and the hours they want you to do (all in normal working hours, so I would have to put off work) really put me off.
I think the main thing is that cause I was by myself for so long every time I get bored/lonely I get upset cause I think it's going back like that.
LJ is my vent and rant place, whcih is good cause I get lovely people like you to give my advice :)
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