is it rape if you're so blackout drunk you don't even remember it happening? bc if i was sober i wouldn't have done it but my friends told me i looked like i was really into the guy at the party before we disappeared :/ i don't even know who he is or what happened
are you serious? how selfish can you be? what if your friends want to party too are you just not going to allow it? what if you're a crazy and violent drunk and your friends can't control you? YOU should know your limit and if you don't know it then drink in a safe place until you figure it out.
Lol omg are you kidding me you owe your friends a duty to take care of them if you are sober and they're drunk. if you see your friend drunkenly going off with some strange guy, you better stop him or her because you should care enough about their well-being to do so. I'd do the same if I wasn't friends with some girl and she was drunkenly walking away with a guy she didn't know but it's the fucking decent thing to do
i can't with this fucking generation that seems to take no responsibility for other people
i can't with this generation that puts the blame on others always yes, your friends SHOULD stop you if they're good friends. but if they don't, it doesn't make them shitty people, unless they are FULLY aware that you're going away with an unsafe person and don't seem to care.
yes it does. so tired of people being self-centered. if you care about others, you will help them. just sitting back and watching your friend get raped is awful and makes you a shitty friend and human being
just because your friend is going home with someone doesn't mean she's getting raped, jesus. you remind me of my old room mate who i barely knew but invited me out to parties and then blamed me when i "let her" go to bed with someone (apparently they didn't sleep together but idc) and then woke up in the morning asking me why i "let her" go upstairs with this guy.
YOU should know your limit and if you don't know it then drink in a safe place until you figure it out.
lol nahhhhhh, how about predatory dudes need to take responsibility for their actions and understand that it's never okay to have sex with someone who can't consent
sexual assault is never everrrrrrr the victim's fault
of course it isn't, thanks for putting words in my mouth and having no reading comprehension. i didn't say it was the victim's fault, but it is NOT the friend's fault either. it is 100% the male's fault. i believe my advice about drinking is something people should take into account. i stopped hanging out with people who didn't know their limit when drinking because no one wants to fucking take care of that EVERY time. it ruins the night.
you're taking the blame off of the friends, and placing it on the victim for what you consider to be putting themselves in an unsafe situation in the first place, that's victim blaming and all the reading comprehension in the world isn't going to work around that
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I totally see what you mean when you say that I'm blaming the friends, but here's the thing, I don't think the friends are to blame for the sexual assault, but I do think bystander accountability is important here
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you owe your friends a duty to take care of them if you are sober and they're drunk. if you see your friend drunkenly going off with some strange guy, you better stop him or her because you should care enough about their well-being to do so. I'd do the same if I wasn't friends with some girl and she was drunkenly walking away with a guy she didn't know but it's the fucking decent thing to do
i can't with this fucking generation that seems to take no responsibility for other people
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yes, your friends SHOULD stop you if they're good friends. but if they don't, it doesn't make them shitty people, unless they are FULLY aware that you're going away with an unsafe person and don't seem to care.
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you remind me of my old room mate who i barely knew but invited me out to parties and then blamed me when i "let her" go to bed with someone (apparently they didn't sleep together but idc) and then woke up in the morning asking me why i "let her" go upstairs with this guy.
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lol nahhhhhh, how about predatory dudes need to take responsibility for their actions and understand that it's never okay to have sex with someone who can't consent
sexual assault is never everrrrrrr the victim's fault
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i didn't say it was the victim's fault, but it is NOT the friend's fault either. it is 100% the male's fault.
i believe my advice about drinking is something people should take into account. i stopped hanging out with people who didn't know their limit when drinking because no one wants to fucking take care of that EVERY time. it ruins the night.
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