ok, here goes
i am more of a pro-choice on the matter.
i am agianst it if it is in a marriage and it is hurting your spouse. i've been married for two years and porn almost killed our marriage.
well, i married a porn addict and because of past abuse i have been traumitised from porn. i see it and i have panic attacks and start crying. he was abusive for most of the time too.
he was also selfish then too,i gave up everything he dind't like and he wouldn't give up one thing that truly hurt me.
well,that was the horrible part, now for the good part. we've been working through his porn addiction. he doens't want to look at it anymore. we sometimes even watch soft-core stuff together and have our own home-made ones.
now for facts:
true:
not every one looks at it
some marriges and relationships can have it, some can't
some people have been traumatised to where they cna't have porn around
not just insicure people don't want thier partner to look at porn
looking at it doens't make you a good/bad person.
porn can be addicting and poeple addicted to it can become very abusive
false:
everyone looks at it
poeple can't live without it
you're views are worng because {insert bullshit excuse here}
you need it to make you relationship work.
all men/women who look at porn are bad
all men/women who look at porn are looking at illigal stuff too.
ok, bullshit reasonning and things i have been told from sahring my complete story with assholes!
women are entitled to feel happy that thier partner looks at porn
poeple who say porn hurts them is lying
your relationship won't survive without it
you're veiws are completely wrong, romantic and can never happen in any relationship.
that's just a few.
now i don't really care if you look at porn in your relationship, it's all fine and dandy. i am not anti-porn but i do suppost men and women who are agianst it because of traumatisation, addiction or abuse.
i don't like being called anti-porn because it it not in my relationship because of our situation. i don't liek being called pro-porn because i watch it with my hubby sometimes.
i say, do what feel right in the relationship, if porn makes one of you feel bad, don't hide it from the other, be opend about it and come to a conclusion, even if it means giving it up. you love and want to spend the rest of your life with this person right?
i know, i go on alot. my relationship goes by my emotions, my views on porn go by fact, emotion sometimes.
i am agianst it if it is in a marriage and it is hurting your spouse. i've been married for two years and porn almost killed our marriage.
well, i married a porn addict and because of past abuse i have been traumitised from porn. i see it and i have panic attacks and start crying. he was abusive for most of the time too.
he was also selfish then too,i gave up everything he dind't like and he wouldn't give up one thing that truly hurt me.
well,that was the horrible part, now for the good part. we've been working through his porn addiction. he doens't want to look at it anymore. we sometimes even watch soft-core stuff together and have our own home-made ones.
now for facts:
true:
not every one looks at it
some marriges and relationships can have it, some can't
some people have been traumatised to where they cna't have porn around
not just insicure people don't want thier partner to look at porn
looking at it doens't make you a good/bad person.
porn can be addicting and poeple addicted to it can become very abusive
false:
everyone looks at it
poeple can't live without it
you're views are worng because {insert bullshit excuse here}
you need it to make you relationship work.
all men/women who look at porn are bad
all men/women who look at porn are looking at illigal stuff too.
ok, bullshit reasonning and things i have been told from sahring my complete story with assholes!
women are entitled to feel happy that thier partner looks at porn
poeple who say porn hurts them is lying
your relationship won't survive without it
you're veiws are completely wrong, romantic and can never happen in any relationship.
that's just a few.
now i don't really care if you look at porn in your relationship, it's all fine and dandy. i am not anti-porn but i do suppost men and women who are agianst it because of traumatisation, addiction or abuse.
i don't like being called anti-porn because it it not in my relationship because of our situation. i don't liek being called pro-porn because i watch it with my hubby sometimes.
i say, do what feel right in the relationship, if porn makes one of you feel bad, don't hide it from the other, be opend about it and come to a conclusion, even if it means giving it up. you love and want to spend the rest of your life with this person right?
i know, i go on alot. my relationship goes by my emotions, my views on porn go by fact, emotion sometimes.