Comments | anti_baggage: Open Letter To The "Step"

imustbesilent in anti_baggage

Open Letter To The "Step"

Oct 21, 2005 15:01

Dear Current Partner of My Ex-Partner,

I am a single parent who has sole custody of a small child. My former partner plays little to no part in my child's life (and never has), though occasionally he/she will butt his/her head in and try to take part in my child's life.

Keep my ex-partner occupied and away from my child, please.I do not want you ( Read more... )

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carrionsynapses October 21 2005, 21:13:37 UTC

I feel this way often about my boyfriend's ex-wife. She lives in Canada and calls the boys perhaps once a week, maybe once every two weeks. She's been diagnosed with schizophrenia and refuses to get medication. We don't believe that she's a danger to the kids, but that's not the point. The point is that my boyfriend is still stuck on the way he WANTED things with the x to go -- he wanted her to settle down, to get a stable job, send child support to the kids. The reality is that she ABANDONED them to move back to Canada and be "independent". At this point in time, he would be willing to move to Nashville EXCEPT for the fact that he had wanted to move to Vancouver so he would be in Canada and the ex could see the kids ( ... )

imustbesilent November 3 2005, 17:25:41 UTC

My current spouse also has the misguided belief that there needs to be some sort of bond. Bullshit. There never was a bond and I think trying to force it is idiocy in its highest. I think your partner's ex should be committed. If you're willingly being a mother to those kids than for all intents and purposes you ARE their mother.

english_peach October 22 2005, 20:25:48 UTC

I hope this is for real (although I have doubts)

I enjoyed reading it anyway ;)

P.S. I'm the owner of this community.

carrionsynapses October 24 2005, 18:09:36 UTC

Hmmmmm...maybe you're right and she isn't telling a lick of truth...I hadn't thought about that....

she hasn't responded to my comment, so you might be right....it -was- interesting to read though, eh?

imustbesilent November 3 2005, 17:26:51 UTC

I just don't check this site very often. :-) Not a day goes by that I don't wish my ex would be out of my child's life forever.

imustbesilent November 3 2005, 17:23:18 UTC

It is 100% for real. I pray every single night that my ex will find someone who will force him/her to give up his/her parental rights. I've given him/her the papers NUMEROUS times and he/she refuses to sign because he/she sees our child as one of his/her possessions. I absolutely, positively want my ex and his/her partner out of my child's life forever.