i don't like my friends either
anonymous
March 28 2007, 02:38:35 UTC
i think i know sort of where you are coming from. Just this year i realized that i really don't like or respect any of the people who i had up until now hung out with. The group of them, as i see it, revolves around the sort of ringleader who is the arrogant know-it-all who knows very little type, and the rest who sort of follow her example and know even less. I think i realized i didn't like them when i ended up going out with the ringleader girl and was forced to spend more time then usual with them all, and partly i think i am just maturing past them or something. Anyhow, i wouldn't mind really, except now i don't really have friends and it's hard to make any because everything is so cliquey. Anyhow maybe you don't care about this, and you probably don't, but it's good to get it off my chest anyhow :)
thank god its just not happening to me.
anonymous
December 18 2007, 17:37:34 UTC
hey .... lolol..good to read the two posts above....most of my friends are quite amicable...quite okay to hang out with...but maybe the reason i hang out with most of them is cos i dont have too many options..i have no complaints.. except that well ...from some time now i dont much care if i didnt hang out with them or meet them. its stopped mattering. and now partying with them or meeting or hanging out is like well just timepass. nothing more than that. i was thinking something is surely wrong with me..why am i disliking people suddenly ?.am i depressed.. but heck maybe its just okay and i really would like a different kind or set of friends.. but hell they are hard to come by.. and hence precious. cheers!!
i totally agree with you all. i used to be best friends with this girl in our gang, and then she left me to be best mates with another girl in our gang. everyone used to tell me that me and my ( at the time ) best friend were really sad but i thought yeh right. Now the girl that has replaced me is like my clone. I see how people thought i was sad! the point is that i think i have finally grown out of my old friends. but anyone who goes to highschool knows you don't make new friends. peoplem always say its easy but i swear to you it does NOT happen. people haver already setlled in and have there own gangs, you dont just hang out with different people everyday. i dont know what to but, but i know what i have to do. i have to put up with them. its so depressing. they purposly leave me out and its like, you used to be my best friend, and now, even though your my 'friend' why are you being such a bitch! when people talk about there best friends i hate it. i used to have one, we even went on holiday to tunisia and cornwall together! we
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Re: TOTALLY
anonymous
January 6 2008, 07:47:32 UTC
I am in the same situation!! I am in college now and I DREAD coming home for breaks because I have to hang out with my 4 best friends from highschool. I feel like so much of my life has been completely ruled by them. Thats not to say I dont like them. I really do, sometimes. And I respect them and everything we've been through together. But I am just now starting to realize how little they know about me, and how much they may prevent me from being who I really want to be. I have even considered deleteing my facebook so I dont feel monitored by them; they are all really into partying and drinking and I'm just not anymore. I feel like they judge me if I dont boast about my alcohol consumption or something. Dont get me wrong, I love a good party. But after the weekend is done, I like to be able to have fun and interesting conversation without alcohol involved
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I've lost some of my best friends from high school. But at the same time, I've become extremely close with some of the people from high school that I rarely hung out with.
My friends aren't nice people either!!
anonymous
January 24 2008, 02:55:55 UTC
It seems a common problem. I find in my social groups (as above) the advantage does seem to be with the rude, obnoxious, aggressive types, while i'm overly compassionate. A trait which is not shared with most people. And this compassion is seen as a kind of weakness, and abused by the less compassionate among us. But in my view - if you are not happy in your circle of friends -SOD THEM!! You are clearly too good for them, and if after a while they are talking about how you abandoned your friends, explain that THEIR definition of friendship is correct, as they see you as a friend because you are a nice person. However, this friendship cannot reciprocated, as they treat you badly - that is not the definition of friendship is it?! You dont have to go on putting up with being unappreciated. You may not be able to choose your friends, but you can choose not to hang around with people who only take advantage of you.
Re: My friends aren't nice people either!!
anonymous
October 6 2009, 23:16:20 UTC
I really don't like my friends either, I'm still in high school and am getting really sick of them. If somebody else who I'm acquaintances with is with my friends, I feel embarrassed by the things they say. The only problem is, I'm in grade 10 and social groups are pretty decided by now. If I ditch my friends I'll have nobody left. So..?
I feel the same way, iv had a group I ran around with for a long time and anymore I just dont feel connected to them at all. We have all just grown into different people and have a different view of things. I can totally relate to when you said you walked up t the door and then wanted to turn around and just be somewhere else. That happens to me a lot. And it only gets worse cause they are the type to where if you dont hang out with them on every single spare minute you have they act like they are offended, I just cant stand it when that shit happens. I also hate when ur dating someone new and u introduce them they automacticly find shit they dont like about that person and just make stupid comments. Well i guess this was long as fuck but I had some shit to get off of my chest and well telling my "friends" wouldnt really get me anywhere haha
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If you keep attracting people you don't like, perhaps it is time to take another look at who you think you are... :)
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