*hugs* You may have caused him to become angry but unless you order him to leave your bed it is his choice to sleep on the couch and therefore NOT your fault.
If this is the first serious argument you've had in 9.5 years, I'd say you're doing pretty well. It's normal to argue, you shouldn't be so hard on yourself. It takes two to tango, after all. Hang in there! *hugs*
It's not the first argument. We've had some pretty nasty fights. But never has it been because of US. It's always been because of other people getting involved in our relationship, but never just us. So, I guess in essence, it was our first. :-/ It was the first time he left to sleep on the couch...
I'm not even going to try and list all the things that are wrong about what you're saying here, mainly because on a better day you can see them clearly enough for yourself, but...
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please stop beating yourself up like this, you kn ow it's counter-productive love, plus you're wrong, you are definitely not alone, if you were there wouldn't be a single comment here, yet look at them...
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You may have caused him to become angry but unless you order him to leave your bed it is his choice to sleep on the couch and therefore NOT your fault.
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Thank you.
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So, I guess in essence, it was our first. :-/
It was the first time he left to sleep on the couch...
Thank you.
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I feel like I should have been texting or calling. *hugs* Hang on, love. Hang on.
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How could you, if you didn't know?
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*hugs*
please stop beating yourself up like this, you kn ow it's counter-productive love, plus you're wrong, you are definitely not alone, if you were there wouldn't be a single comment here, yet look at them...
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But thank you so much *hugs back*
I'll try to stop. Really, I will.
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As long as you keep fighting though, it will not beat you :)
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But I will. I will try to fight my way through. Thank you. I falter though... :(
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