a thought, leading to a question

[apostle_of_eris]

My sexual self-image is "vanilla het", which leaves quite a wide gap between what I'm inclined toward and what I might object to. I've never made a systematic survey, but I have friends and acquaintances of a wide range of preferences/tastes

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[cakmpls]

I don't know from personal experience, but in a book I copyedited, Playing on the Edge: Sadomasochism, Risk, and Intimacy, by Staci Newmahr, she includes quite a bit about this very kind of negotiation, and it seems to me more so for the less common practices.

[barondave]

I think Delany covers roughly this topic, agreeing with you from the other side of the preference spectrum, in Stars In My Pockets Like Grains of Sand.

[apostle_of_eris]

Presumably because of s*x, some lame spider has been adding "comments" -- advertising Israeli vacations. In Hebrew.
Is there any sort of "you're too stupid to be a script kiddy" response?