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[apresmoii]

do you guys ever feel remorse about taking away someone's virginity of whom you do not love and therefore ravaging and crushing their expectations for an unrealistic relationship fantasy? does that make us bad people? does it make ME evil? am i soulless for not giving a shit? being disrespectful? i suppose it's the risk assumed by both parties when

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[big_fluffy01]

I've taken three people's virginity. One of them was a drunken hook-up albeit with a good friend whom I still care much about. It wasn't at all her preferred means of losing it, nor was it something I was happy about having (primarily for that reason), but it's all cool. We're still friends and to the best of my knowledge (which may be limited on the matter), things are okay despite it. The second one was an ex who I still can't figure out how we ever dated, let alone fucked. I have remorse for the former girl for taking her virginity in a way that wasn't preferred and contrastingly I regret taking the latter's because she's a crazy bitch and I'd rather have been there; though there was nothing off about it at the time (save for the fact that it went down on Valentine's Day, which I thought was cheesy). The third is my current girlfriend, and unless she ends up proving herself to be a complete bitch like the last one, I see no reason to regret that one. That said, I wouldn't worry about it. The girl who took my virginity