just be yourself. i love you, even if it's only lj. i mean, i have been reading this thing for 4320943 years. i think you're great. romantic relationships require us to NOT be ourselves sometimes. anddd sometimes they require us TO be ourselves. be yourself, april. if you want to flash your tits, flash them. if i was there and you did that in a bar, i would have LAUGHED. it's silliness. i think a person can respect and love their body and still flash their tits. think about it...it's ultimate happiness and freedom when it's sincere (but im still laughing at how funny this all sounds). if he doesnt like that, it's b/c he can't totally control you and he might be a little victorian. you're not a bad person and you deserve LOVE. and then again, if you were drunk....well, that's just a whole other story and no one should be penalized for things they do on drugz.....unless they kill someone or something.
just enjoy this world, your tits included. again, most important, you are not a bad person, dudette. xoxoox i miss ya.
thanks. i told him i would have laughed if he whipped his dick out! he didnt think it was funny. but it sounds like something he might do. the other day he did like that mentos commercial in a cab that wasnt even his. he got in, popped a mentos, and went out the other side. i like his wackiness, but i guess im too wacky for him sometimes.
you know how it is sometimes. people associate the body directly with emotional love. he probably thinks some guy would see you and think you're hot (which is probably true!!!!) and come on to you and you'd leave ol' bf in the dust. but you obvsly really like him. if you feel that way, just tell him you'll always be honest with him. you didnt cheat on him or anything. man. i dunno. he just can't be pissed at you over this! and i hope he comes to his senses. obsly sometimes men want a nice 'old fashioned girl.' it sucks for the girl though. it's like, 'cover up, woman. put that burqua(sp?) on.' it sounds like something that just happened. it's not like you were fucking some guy in front of him. boobs are on the outside of us, to be seen regardless. so everyone should get over it!! everyone pretty much knows what boobs look like. people are way too weird about their bodies. it makes sense in terms of our society kind of (even though our society loves to show off the body so wtf).........but in reality we're not here to get pissed over
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just enjoy this world, your tits included.
again, most important, you are not a bad person, dudette.
xoxoox i miss ya.
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