Oh my goodness!!!! That's awful. I don't know what to tell you other than to let him know that you are there for him to talk to. Ask him if has talked to anyone about this. The cutting is scary, and if he is willing to harm himself, you may want to try to get him to think about some counciling or something. That's so awful though. He must be really sad and depressed. Do you know if he is on any medication?
no I wish I did, I didn't really ask any questions last night when we talked, just mainly listened. I have to talk to him though. I'm just so scared for him and nervous and ugh there are so many things that can hapen and I almost wish he hadn't told me bc it's the only thing I can think about and it's really bugging me down. But I am glad he told me, glad to know that w/e i do I am only helping him. I need to talk to him though. Ugh I need to call him. thanks for listening.
Awww honey, I'm so sorry. I can understand why it upset you so much. There's not a lot you can do... just be there for him, be a good listener and without making it overly obvious (cos a lot of people like that hate being forced into stuff), try to make him see the beauty in life... hopefully you can help to turn him around. You could also give him some numbers of helplines or therapy groups if you think he would benefit from it. *hugs* good luck!
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But I am glad he told me, glad to know that w/e i do I am only helping him.
I need to talk to him though.
Ugh I need to call him. thanks for listening.
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There's not a lot you can do... just be there for him, be a good listener and without making it overly obvious (cos a lot of people like that hate being forced into stuff), try to make him see the beauty in life... hopefully you can help to turn him around. You could also give him some numbers of helplines or therapy groups if you think he would benefit from it.
*hugs* good luck!
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