I moved to the house I did in Philadelphia, despite the random people and dirty kitchen, largely so I could be here in time to go to the trans-health conference. After moving, I waffled a lot--wouldn't I be disrupting other people's safe space, could my turning up there be interpreted as me doing the obnoxious "it's your job as an [insert minority
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I've seen this happen in thread after thread of RaceFail and related conversations. Examining one's privilege is an ordeal initiation, and initiations cannot take place unless a space is created that is safe for the intiate. Telling the (privileged) initiate that they don't deserve a safe space because they have the whole rest of society to be safe in is never going to help. It's not even true - there are all kinds of ways to feel unsafe, and no kind of privilege protects from all of them.
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(Psst, he's also a Quaker. Oh, and I found your LJ from the Quaker group on Ravelry, looking for local-ish people.)
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Where exactly are you geographically. I wrote this post while living in Philly, but I'm DC-based these days. If you're DC-local and comfortable identifying yourself, shoot me a ravelry message or e-mail songsaboutrainbows [at] gmail. Would love to do a Quaker knitting meetup!
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