but, then, be careful not to let yourself go too far in the other direction with trust. maybe you (subconsciously?) seek out guys who lie. i dunno, and i'm definitely not trying to judge what's going on, just throwing possibilities out there.
That probably was true in the past. That's exactly what I mean... I am dating a totally different kind of man now, because I am different, and I can't continue to project the problems I had with other guys on to the new one. He hasn't given me any reason not to trust him, yet I insist on telling myself that he is lying all the time. I've just been conditioned over the years to assume that every guy is going to lie to me, cheat on me, and eventually push me around. It's not fair to put that on the new one since I have no reason to believe that he will do those things too.
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Isn't it a shame that we have to get accustomed to being lied to instead of just being with people who don't lie.
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