Comments | ariaeve: Oh, dear.

ariaeve

Oh, dear.

Apr 19, 2007 15:21

So . . . there's this guy at school, and I find that I have developed very large crush on him. But this, for me, is very unusual, because it is rare that I ever have a crush on anyone, and not only that, but this guy? Yeah, I've never met him before. I don't even know his name. I pass him in the halls between classes, he sits a few tables away from ( Read more... )

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lightningflash8 April 19 2007, 23:10:30 UTC

*squeeze*

I'm far from expert at this, so I don't really know what to say, other than at least you're being reasonable and logical about your feelings?

Um. I think I'll settle for hugging you.

♥

ariaeve April 21 2007, 00:15:27 UTC

Thanks, hon, just the fact that you're there for me is good enough. ♥ *huggle*

lightningflash8 April 21 2007, 00:41:00 UTC

Oooor, you could come to Aus and hang out with me. :P

ariaeve April 21 2007, 01:11:58 UTC

One day, I will! Hopefully next year. ♥

mariagoner April 20 2007, 05:16:33 UTC

OMG, that is so freaking adorable! And dude, having harmless crushes is so much fun! I miss having crushes in the work place... it made going to the office so much fun. I think you should just enjoy the ride while it lasts, honestly. ;)

ariaeve April 20 2007, 23:41:15 UTC

Maria!! Fun??? Enjoy it?! I want it to end! This boy has taken over my mind and frankly all he's doing is distracting me and frustrating me and causing me a great deal of stress because ultimately, all this little infatuation is gonna do for me is make me depressed because odds are nothing will ever happen.

*sigh* Maybe the way I develop crushes is just different or weird or something because my sister said the same thing as you. >>; Wah. ;__;

mariagoner April 21 2007, 04:59:56 UTC

Oh dear, it sounds like you have it bad for this boy! Well... just think of it this way. If you ever did get to know this guy, he might not turn out to be so wonderful after all. He might turn out to be a jerk or a loser or an idiot or just plain incompatible with you. But if he's just a crush in your mind, you can always have fun little fantasies about him to brighten up your day. Y'know, have fun with it-- don't try and take it too seriously. ;)

ariaeve April 21 2007, 13:31:43 UTC

Fantasies. XD I find my self doing that a lot actually, but then I blush reeaalllyy bad and I have to stop. XD;; I mean, I don't have sexual fantasies about him, holy crap NO, but even so . . . wah, my cheeks get all hot when I think about it!!! XD

But thanks for the adivice ♥ . . . and yes, I think I do have it quite bad for him. >>;

talk to him clith April 20 2007, 17:02:29 UTC

Best bet: ask him about his music. People love to talk about stuff they're interested in.

Good luck!

Re: talk to him ariaeve April 20 2007, 23:24:56 UTC

>____>

See, that would be absolutely wonderful advice if he and I actually interacted. I don't even know his freaking name, and even if I did and he and I were at least acquaintances, I am too much of a chicken to just . . . talk to him. >___< Which is unusual because I am extremely outgoing and I looove to talk to everybody, even people I don't know. GAH!!

*hug* Thanks so much though. ;_____;
I think I'm leaving it up to fate or destiny or whatever to just . . . sending us crashing together so we have to talk to each other? Yeah, there we go. >>;