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[arimidex]

out of curiousity, not judgement, i would like to ask;

why do some people define themselves by their romantic partners? and not by their romantic partners' personalities, but by stating whether or not they have one - like THEY are an interesting fact about YOU.

if they were children, of course i would understand. you created them. they're a part of

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[arimidex]

totally justified. LOL

[princesssisi87]

Ah, that's an interesting question. I'm not sure whether I'll respond per se, as this is as much a mystery to me as it probably is to you

[arimidex]

I totally agree with this! It would be like me saying "Hi, I'm Sara, I'm single." Why would "Hi, I'm Sara, I'm in a relationship!" sound any less needy and unself-assured.