People suck

May 21, 2009 17:19

Why is it that when you don't contact someone for a week they send you an email asking if they've pissed you off? Especially when they KNOW that they DID ( Read more... )

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poisongirl May 21 2009, 22:19:44 UTC
Yep. I agree.
With all of it.
You can add to the last part that just because someone is comfortable talking sex, that does not mean that they will sleep with you. Just sayin'. ;-)

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fahkingnut May 22 2009, 01:57:49 UTC
Well said.

Yeah, sometimes you just gotta get out the old soap box and let it fly, regardless.

Love & Hugs,
FahKingNut

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artemis257 May 22 2009, 12:34:38 UTC
whee.

life is supposed to be simple.

I am me.
I am not another, but me.
My friends are not me, I am.
If you want to know me, say hi.
If you want to *know* me, pay attention.

seriously, is that hard?

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eeyore_sings May 22 2009, 13:09:05 UTC
I think, because friends are closer, we give them more lee-way. Just like we usually give even more lee-way to "family" than we do friends. Part of that is friends know us better. They know the lines that are okay to cross and those to avoid. But part of that is a responsibility on the friend's part to realize when they have crossed a line, step back, and apologize. Without having to be goaded into it.

Passive/aggressive, though? Yeah, that has almost no place in any relationship. Be an adult.

I like two other comments from Spitty's journal: Just because someone has the same interests as you does not mean you automatically want to sleep/play with them. And just because you are friends with my friend does not make you my friend. It does not make you automatically accepted. We still have to get to know you just like everyone else.

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snowjag May 22 2009, 18:59:15 UTC
I think we are expected to accept our friends bad behavior, in exchange for them accepting ours when we behave badly.

Birds of a feather flock together... stupid, I know, but I think most people go by this.

stealing this from porthos:
God is Great...
Beer is Good...
And People are Stupid......

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spitfiren9 May 22 2009, 22:00:49 UTC
*huggles*

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