Hmmm, so I can't do this thing anonymously, but it's ok, cause it's something I have no problem saying anyway. :-) for future reference, you might want this entry unprotected. Here's my response for that thing:
I've always been jealous of your knack for languages. You're amazingly talented at speaking, and the way the words roll off your tongue with such ease is really beautiful to listen to. I'm really happy that you're going to a place with strong programs that you can keep up doing that which you already do extremely well.
I'm god-awful at being anonymous. Sorry in advance.
You act exclusive towards people sometimes. It's the way you look at them, as though you're so much better. I understand you don't mean it, but sometimes I hurt from the way you look down on people. Or at least appear to. I know you aren't really like that, and I wish it could show all the time.
Actually, I've heard that before, and to be honest, I have no idea how to change it. Because I think part of it is still me subconsciously defending myself from people I assume think that they're better than me, and wouldn't want to be friends with me anyway. I think I go into meeting people assuming they won't like me, because that was my experience for a long time, and I know that I'll get myself hurt by putting myself out there.
As a serious request to everyone, please tell me when you notice me looking at people the way ^^ described. Because it really is unconcsious, and I need to learn to recognize it so I can stop.
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I've always been jealous of your knack for languages. You're amazingly talented at speaking, and the way the words roll off your tongue with such ease is really beautiful to listen to. I'm really happy that you're going to a place with strong programs that you can keep up doing that which you already do extremely well.
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You act exclusive towards people sometimes. It's the way you look at them, as though you're so much better. I understand you don't mean it, but sometimes I hurt from the way you look down on people. Or at least appear to. I know you aren't really like that, and I wish it could show all the time.
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As a serious request to everyone, please tell me when you notice me looking at people the way ^^ described. Because it really is unconcsious, and I need to learn to recognize it so I can stop.
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