On hobbies and self-improvement and meaning

[arrowtwolf]

I don't have a lot of hobbies. Part of the reason is that I have stringent rules on what's an effective use of my time: it's either got to be something that improves the way I feel about myself or something that's social, that helps create good bonds with people I enjoy. Playing a video game or seeing a movie feels like a waste of time; a

Comments

[kylet]

You still lifting? That's a pretty good hobby. Looked like it was working for you, curious how you'll look at FC

[baconcoyote]

At what point do you stop "being productive?" in your day? When is it ok to just sit down and watch TV or a movie? I work hard at work, so I can veg at home!

As for self improvement, both physically and mentally, doing things that don't require you to be productive and just relax is VERY good for you! I think the mentality of having to do stuff or feeling bad is a big part of being stressed and anxious!

Obviously this is only my philosophy, which I'm definitely not saying is necessarily better for YOU. But I do think that finding a more balanced view could be something that would help you feel better about things!

The purpose of life is what we decide to give it, and for me, my purpose is to enjoy it, experience new things, and hopefully help others enjoy there's as well.

[unmutual]

I know *exactly* what you mean. :/

[fairbank_otts]

You're like my twin on the other side of the world who suffers from the same issues as myself. :P

[thump]

Some of this sounds familiar :)

Bacon is right though, it has to be ok to not be productive sometimes. Very difficult for me to do also!