{+11} What Valentines Day has taught me

Feb 15, 2009 21:04

I will forget about her.
I will forget about love.
Love is a despicable bastard.
I am a fool for ever falling in love.

Despite all this, I probably won't forget about any of this and will mope around for the next couple of weeks with Feliks laughing behind my back.

I hate life.

i hate life, !log, love is an illusion

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mansae February 16 2009, 04:15:19 UTC
Love is teribble! Every time you think a girl is about to show you her breasts, she stops!

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arthur_k_sama February 16 2009, 04:39:56 UTC
(OOC: You spelled terrible wrong. orz *shot for being a spelling nazi*)

What? Love is nothing about breasts. It's about finding the one person who you want to spend the rest of your life with. It's about finding someone who makes you cry with laughter, someone who will accept your flaws and try and bring out the best in you, someone who will sit through anything with you even if they don't want to. YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT LOVE IS ABOUT DO YOU? *crys*

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mansae February 16 2009, 04:54:47 UTC
[[ OOC: ...Yes I did. My "r" wanted to be a "b", apparently. :|;; ]]

It is about breasts! If you're spending your life with somebody, they should have a decent rack for you to appreciate! What's crying with laughter good for if there's not a soft haven to rest your head? No! It's all about the breasts! That's why your partner is always your BFF, right? Breast friend forever! LOVE ORIGINATED IN KOREA, I KNOW WHAT IT'S ABOUT!

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arthur_k_sama February 16 2009, 05:02:50 UTC
It is not about breasts! BFF also means best friend forever, not breast friend forever. D: What good is a girl anyway if she's not lovely on the inside. She could be a plain Jane and still have the cutest personality. I just want a girl who is kind, fun, witty, sweet, accepting, logical. I don't care if she's flat chested. As long as she's always herself, I don't care what she looks like.

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thehiddencharm February 16 2009, 06:42:07 UTC
[Hello she might not know you but]

Why are you so down?

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arthur_k_sama February 16 2009, 13:06:10 UTC
There was this one girl I feel in love with and in all honesty, she probably hates me. I guess it just depends on her happiness, but I still kinda wish she liked me back.

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thehiddencharm February 16 2009, 13:19:08 UTC
Oh... I'm sorry to hear that.

Have you guys met recently or you just haven't communicated in a long time?

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arthur_k_sama February 16 2009, 23:03:02 UTC
I haven't really spoken to her in a while, but we never had the best relationship. I spent part of my childhood growing up with her, the only thing is, she was clumsy and a bit of a ditz, but cute. I liked her because she really showed me to look at life in a different way, contrasting from my already clouded view on the matter. I slowly fell in love with her, but she with her clumsiness accidentally broke tons of my possessions and felt horrible about it. I didn't really mind so much, but she felt obligated to pay me back, after already having a similar relationship with someone else in that regard, so I think I can understand why she might feel really awkward around me now. But if anything, I'm not going to force her into anything. If her happiness doesn't include me, I'm not going to force her into it.

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russiapink February 16 2009, 10:05:22 UTC
Well, at least you can Love, Arthur... I've never fall in love, and it's said that it's better to have loved and have lost that never have loved...

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arthur_k_sama February 16 2009, 13:13:05 UTC
Y-YOU'VE N-NEVER BEEN IN L-LOVE? You're lucky, love has only caused me heartache.

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russiapink February 16 2009, 21:21:37 UTC
Yup, love it's still a enigma to me.

I guess you can say I'm lucky. I don't wanna be in love. Love makes you weak. And defenseless. I don't want to change myself because of love.

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arthur_k_sama February 16 2009, 23:25:12 UTC
I haven't really noticed anything weak and defenseless about it, it's just it makes you crushed and devastated half the time.

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Charlotte to the rescue~ dame_de_coeur February 16 2009, 21:20:23 UTC
Aww, poor Arthur. How unfortunate! Was this the same girl that you said you thought was playing mind-games with you?

Talk to me. You're lucky to have me for a friend, as I know a lot about l'amour. While it's not my specialty, I could try my hand at healing broken hearts!

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Re: Charlotte to the rescue~ arthur_k_sama February 16 2009, 23:33:46 UTC
It was the same girl. We never had the best relationship anyway, I could understand why if she hates me.

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Re: Charlotte to the rescue~ dame_de_coeur February 18 2009, 07:46:43 UTC
Well, hate is not the opposite of love-they're actually closely correlated. To be honest, I can't imagine you evoking that kind of reaction out of someone. She could just be a person who isn't as straightforward with her feelings as some others. And if she does indeed hate you, you can always try to mend that rift. I'm reluctant to bring the dreaded "friend" into the equation, but a lot of successful relationships have started off that way. And if she still hates you after you've tried to be a friend...I would be inclined to think she's missing out.

What kind of relationship did both of you have, anyways?

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Re: Charlotte to the rescue~ arthur_k_sama February 18 2009, 11:46:01 UTC
I met her while I was still a child. She had a tendency to run into trouble about every waking moment and I spent most of my time defending her. She was very clumsy as well, she broke a lot of my possessions that way, though most of them were easily replaceable so I myself didn't mind much, but she felt obligated to pay me back for it. I slowly fell in love with her because of how different she was from me, having a very ditsy personality and a completely different outlook on life. I don't think she can look at me without thinking about her bad experience in that regard.

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freedomfriez February 20 2009, 22:50:02 UTC
Life's a great thing to love though! Don't hate it just 'cause it's got you down. You gotta smile and face each day with a new optimism, 'cause no day is ever the same twice!

amirite or amirite.

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freedomfriez February 20 2009, 22:50:51 UTC
Oh, wow, I just checked the date of this post. hehehhh... I'm a little late for consolations, aren't I?

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arthur_k_sama February 21 2009, 01:25:43 UTC
I guess. That doesn't really help my current situation. I very rarely fall in love and I don't fall in love easily either. I'll probably be pining over this forever.

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freedomfriez February 21 2009, 05:45:42 UTC
See, this is why we're gonna have a drink Saturday night! Cheers to the new day and forgetting heartbreak and stuff.

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