perfect words

[arwen_sol]

Was reading last night and thus didn't get to bed until about 7a.m. this morning. I couldn't say that it was the "captivating literature" that kept me up since I (sadly) gave into temptation and picked up a few easy-to-read romance novels. I'm saving all my heavy reading for when school starts up and I have to focus on those thousand word essays

Comments

[turtlenamja]

i think that may have made sense. I have have interpreted it another way though. Romance is a bitch ain't it

[arwen_sol]

hmm +nods+ ^^; foshizzle. Though the thing is that I really don't want romance or anything. I'm happy the way I am but reading these books makes me THINK that I want romance... comprenez?

[turtlenamja]

oh....ok then, comprenez

[arwen_sol]

lol okay I didn't mean it in a bitter way -_-'

[digito_x]

that last line is funny.. :p

love is beyond description, but that doesn't mean you should go about setting these expectations that guys won't meet but it also doesn't mean you should ignore what you know you want. you want a guy who thinks romance is important, ok thats not a totally idealistic situation. lots of guys like romance. love's not like in the books and movies, but when it happens it's like a book or movie. i should hope that a guy doesn't just recite other peoples words but thinks of his own to tell you how he feels.. unless he's kinda dim and needs a book/movie/friend to guide him :p

[arwen_sol]

XD well it's true. Remember I told you about Albert? Well, he used to write me these +really+ cheesy "love letters" and... I mean, it's like in the books but it was just laughable in real life y'know. Sorry, I shouldn't mock him ^^;

I guess it's true, it's like the whole finding the perfect person thing. You just don't find a person who is perfect already, you get to know them and realize they're the perfect one for you? At least that's what I tell Albert now haha XD zomg I'm so mean...

[shadowgryph]

Should stop reading romance novels! Yeah, they idealize, etc, etc but then when you come to expect what happens in those novels to be the norm... then you'll have a problem. The real world isn't like that at all.
But sometimes, when you find that person who's willing to go the extra mile and do all that extra idealized crap for you sometimes (not all the time... if that happened all the time, it wouldn't be romantic/special/etc/etc), you'll realize just how lucky you really are.
All girls want the ideal. Just cause you don't have it doesn't mean that there isn't someone out there who'll make you happy in some ways or another.
Hoped that made sense... it made sense in my head anyways.

[arwen_sol]

bleh shaddap -_-; yeah... it makes sense. And I do truly believe it but well, read my replies to the last two posts. It should make sense.