I'm just so lonesome I could die...

[ascn]

Is it sad that I'm only twenty and I've already started planning my life alone. I feel like most of my peers are planning careers and marriage and a lifetime with someone they love. I'm planning law school and a career and saving for adoption and IVF. I'm planning my future without a second thought on a guy. I just really want to be a mommy. I

Comments

[coffee__addict]

Quite honestly, I think the best thing a woman can ever do for herself is to plan a life alone. I think that being able to rely on only yourself is a quality a lot of girls these days seem to lack and have no interest in

[m_buggie]

I have a kick ass family, amazing friends, a steady job that I love, what more could I really ask for?
That statement right there is made of so much WIN.
Because seriously? Love is nifty and all that jazz but no one said you can't be happy by yourself. There's a difference between solitude and loneliness and just because you're not with someone doesn't mean you're sitting around pining for some co-dependent relationship the way society wants us all to believe we should be living.
So hey, if you meet someone then good for you. If you don't then good for you, too. And if it all changes then so be it. You know what I mean?

And look at it this way: you're saving yourself the trouble of becoming disillusioned and annoyed with a relationship to the point that you wake up every morning contemplating how to kill your significant other and get away with it.

[shadedhearts]

don't worry too much about having a guy. if it happens it happens. you still have a long path ahead of you to find a guy. right now you need to focus on your education, cause law school is pretty intense.