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[flamingtoilet]

So, hello there

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[andrea_deer]

Hi there

[flamingtoilet]

I'll be honest, if we never had sex again, I don't think I'd miss it. But I know she would. She gets incredibly frustrated if I put her off too long. And then she gets a little more touchy than I'd like.

[swankivy]

I have offered some advice but it contained a couple links so it was marked as spam when I posted it. Hopefully a moderator will un-spam it soon!

[flamingtoilet]

I got them in my email notification! So, thanks, looks like some good stuff!

[ladypoetess]

Welcome

[flamingtoilet]

I'm totally willing to do it on occasiona, because, yeah, it makes her happy. I just want her to understand that it's not a thing for me, like, at all, and a lot of times when she tries to initiate it I don't feel so good.

[parlance]

I think you've gotten some great advice above. I've never been in a long-term relationship, and it was scary enough realizing I was asexual without being in one, and your fear is palpable in your writing. It was very brave of you to post here, and I wish you the best.

[flamingtoilet]

This is pretty much the ONLY romantic relationship I've ever had that lasted more than a few days. So I guess we're doing something right. :) But this is scary, no question. I honestly think it'd be easier if I was to tell her I was gay. At least she'd be able to wrap her head around that better, even if she didn't like it. But the idea of not having any interest in it at all? It's cute when it's Sheldon Cooper, but she can't quite get that anyone would be like that IRL.

[flamingtoilet]

I've looked at that, and I'll definitely dig for things I can give her to read. Thanks.