asexual?

[krembo83]

i have a friend who always tells me that im asexual, but i dont think so.. i am 31 and still a virgin and im not obsessed with sex like most people. im waiting for marriage, so maybe thats a type of asexuality..?
anyway i wrote a song about my lack of sex.. im attaching the link: Leave a comment

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[purple_bug]

Waiting until marriage is a type of celibacy. Asexuality is about whether or not you find other people sexually attractive. When you look at a person and think they are attractive, does any part of you go "I'd like to have sex with that person"? In your case, do you see people who you would like to marry and then have sex with? It's a spectrum, so if it only happens once in a blue moon, that's gray-asexuality, and if you only develop sexual attraction after a time of getting to know a person, that's demisexuality

thx!

[purple_bug]

thats so funny bec like a half hour ago after a long search on the internet i found a new term that i havent heard b4 and realized im a demisexual! ur spot on.
thx so much!

Re: thx!

[krembo83]

im new here so i accidently replied as anonymous..
thx purple_bug

[bart_calendar]

Whether you are asexual is up to you and not up to other people - who should probably mind their own business.

^this

[theslithytove]