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[ashbarluvbug]

ok...i need opinions...

friends with benefits...

yay or nay? good idea or bad?

Comments

[band_dude]

well that's what tim and i were, so it could be a potential yay? not sure though, murky waters.

[magicallasso42]

A lot of it depends on what "benefits" you have in mind, I think. I'd be very careful. The way I see it, you can't stay that way forever. One of tow things could happen. It develops into something more, or it destroys the friendship you already have. I would really really consider what you really really, truly in your heart want.

[manofsteelwool]

I second this comment.

[hopelessemma]

i say nay but you know my reasoning
whatever you do just be careful
i love you too much for you to get your heart squished

[tisbutascratch1]

you know my thoughts on the subject, but i'm always here for your support, despite if i disagree with the final decision.

[anonymous]

friends with benefits always starts good but for some reason becomes more involved than need be. Its bad if you like the person in a way that when you mess around you think it'll help you really be with that person. If you mess around with no further thoughts of what it could lead to, go for it. There is nothing wrong with benefits in a relationship as long as that's all it is. It's when you become attacthed and then start hoping for somehting more...thats when it's time to call it quits