Friends, um some advice please??

[ashes5191]

Today I have a final to take. Then next week I have 2 more and then next friday I graduate. It's gonna be a huge celebration not only for me but with my friends. I didn't invite Brandon to the long and boring 2 hr ceramony but assumed he'd party with me. I guess I was wrong. He informed me even though I have been telling him since we started dating

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[awshucks]

Hmm, tough one. I know I'd be hurt about it as well but I'm not sure what you can do about it. If you pressure him to go, he'll just end up being all upset and crabby about it and it's never fun when you've got a crabby person around. Personally, I don't see what's so important about a bar crawl and the decision would be easy for me.

I'm sorry I'm not of more help. Maybe he'll come around on his own and decide to help you celebrate instead.

[ashes5191]

thanks steph. : )

i dont think i can do much about it. : (
i just want him to come out 1 of the 2 nights i am going out to celebrate graduation, that would mean a lot to me.
a lot of his friends go to MSU still and when it's an event of b-day they go to like 5 bars and drink all day, typcial boys and i dont get it either but thats what they do and since he has only been with me for 3 mths and known his friends longer, i cant really do shit. it just sucks cause i assumed he'd be here. he better make up for it somehow i guess. making him feel bad about it could work but i dont wanna play that way!