I understand it - it's always so easy to go back to what's comfortable. and the holidays is a hard time to be 'alone'. I'm not saying I agree with giving tim another shot(O.o), but I understand.
*hug* it's okay.
I thought you WERE happy this last little while. me confused.
I think it's natural to try to give someone else a chance. We long for the comfort that we had for that person and easily forget why we aren't together anymore.
Unfortunately, it's about patience and about NOT settling. It was really hard for me not to go back to my ex when things were falling apart in another long-term relationship- because I longed for that feeling again and the comfort I had with him. But it never would have worked.
I just want to say I know what you're feeling, I've been there too, and I know it'll happen for you- it just may take some time. (And I have to admit, I didn't meet JD in the conventional way, but things worked out so much better this way.)
yuppp, it's all about not settling. everyone knows you can do better a.
as for falling in love the way you did when you were little, it can happen! look at all the idiots i've dated (sry t)...i've only loved a tiny HANDFUL of them. so the ratio isn't necessarily that great.
we'll just wait til after your bday to see what moves middleage pulls.
I totally understand how you feel and it's the same reason why i haven't updated as well. Sometimes it's more depressing for me to talk about how i really feel. But things will get better. I'm not ready to move on yet, but one day our prince charming will come around the corner.
A*Head, you're just a very forgiving person. It's not necessarily a flaw, but sometimes ppl just don't deserve it. (ur sister for instance). When they pull the same stupid sht over and over, they shouldn't really get multiple chances. But I guess it depends on how much you care for the person right. I also think, that when you eventually are with the person you are meant to be with, you'll wonder to yourself why you thought anything before that person, could have even been considered love.
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*hug* it's okay.
I thought you WERE happy this last little while. me confused.
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Unfortunately, it's about patience and about NOT settling. It was really hard for me not to go back to my ex when things were falling apart in another long-term relationship- because I longed for that feeling again and the comfort I had with him. But it never would have worked.
I just want to say I know what you're feeling, I've been there too, and I know it'll happen for you- it just may take some time. (And I have to admit, I didn't meet JD in the conventional way, but things worked out so much better this way.)
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as for falling in love the way you did when you were little, it can happen! look at all the idiots i've dated (sry t)...i've only loved a tiny HANDFUL of them. so the ratio isn't necessarily that great.
we'll just wait til after your bday to see what moves middleage pulls.
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*kisses*
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I also think, that when you eventually are with the person you are meant to be with, you'll wonder to yourself why you thought anything before that person, could have even been considered love.
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