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[ashley_luvs_gab]

so ive come to some realizations lately...i am not nearly as unique or thoughtful as i think i am,or rather,would like to be...half the time when i do something,im looking out for what itll do for me, not for the other person...this includes when i do shit for friends...sorry guys, im not so great at doing things if theres no gain for me...most of

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[gab_luvs_ashley]

wow so that was intense.
I hate reading about things in your livejournal that you havent talked to me or told me about :(

[ashley_luvs_gab]

id apologize if i werent in such a blah mood but i dont think apology is due...and you know how i am, i feel better writing something down (notes,lj) than telling someone...words you cant take back, an entry you can rewrite...
-*rock on*-
ash

[gab_luvs_ashley]

then write me a note.
and I didnt say you had to say sorry. I'm saying I hate reading about things that you havent already told me.. ya know?

[ashley_luvs_gab]

im afraid writing a note might not be much better...which is why i write things i want you to know about here...cuz i know youre obsessed with lj...and therefore will see everything i say...ttysoon...
-*rock on*-
ash

[dork4594]

No matter what, if you're doing something for a friend, you're gaining something.
Your friendship is growing stronger.

Friendships aren't necessarily there to help you grow or anything. If I thought about how a friend would "help me grow" before I became friends with him/her, then I wouldn't have many friends. So what if its just fun to be around "that person"? I personally like having fun, and I'd do it while I could and not take stuff like that for granted.
Sure...that person might not be there for you in certain times, so for this purpose, whether or not you were friends with that person you still wouldn't have anyone to put up with the "bitchy parts"...except if you were friends with that person, you'd have all the fun you had with that person to remember.

And sorry if that didn't make much sense, because it made sense in my brain, and I'm not sure if I translated it all right lol

And you are UNIQUE, just like the rest of us. :)
I got that from last year's planner lol.

[ashley_luvs_gab]

im not interested in fair weather friends, i want ppl thatll be there for me unconditionally...
-*rock on*-
ash