Comments | asianlady32: catching up on some good reading..."He's Just Not That Into You"

asianlady32

catching up on some good reading..."He's Just Not That Into You"

Feb 14, 2005 16:55

Things I should have learned:

Chapter 1- "He's just not that into you if he's not asking you out"

~Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.

~An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship".

Chapter 2- "He's just not that into you if he's not calling you"

~Don't be with someone who doesn't do ( Read more... )

Comments 7

cowboycliche87 February 14 2005, 20:58:53 UTC

that book is so terribly wrong it's not even funny ( ... )

whoputonurheart February 14 2005, 21:02:29 UTC

amen! haha

asianlady32 February 14 2005, 22:14:34 UTC

Matthew, totally wrong! If you like a girl then stop being a pussy and do something about it. Don't just sit on your ass and not do anything. Guaranteed the girl is not going to make the first move. If you like a girl you will do something... if you don't do anything then obviously you don't like her enough. Plain and simple... that is how girls are.

cowboycliche87 February 15 2005, 14:43:00 UTC

pretty simply..yup, guys are pussies haha. If a guy doesn't do something, it PROBABLY means that he likes you TOO MUCH, not that he doesn't like you ENOUGH. We're talkin about different things though, there's scales of "liking" people. There's some people that you "like" just for the fact that they're hot or something and you "want" them...those are the people guys won't have trouble calling because they probably don't care about you enough and just wanna mess around with you. But if you're talking about genuinely liking someone, I mean like always on your mind butterflies kinda liking...that's when a guy will be afraid. trust me on this one: If a guy has a "crush" on you...you'll know it, whether he says it or not, it's obvious. If you are his entire world and he'd do anything for you...he'll be cautious.

xgunshotglamour February 15 2005, 06:29:09 UTC

i think this book causes too much havoc...

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smileyriley88 February 15 2005, 17:09:34 UTC

My personal opinion is that if a guy doesn't like me enough to suck it up and call me or at least act like I'm a little bit different from the other girls, then he isn't worth it. I know guys get scared and nervous etc, but I truly do believe it is the guy's job to pursue. If he can't work up the guts to even try it out, then I won't put myself out there for a guy like that. I'm done being the "aggressive girl"... I want a guy to go after ME.

asianlady32 February 15 2005, 21:21:15 UTC

I agree with you Riley. Face it, the girls are not going to make the first move or let there feelings be known. The guys need to know that it is not going to get anywhere if they don't do anything about it. Ya the guys tell us they are "afraid" but to the girls its that they don't like us. Guys need to know that they have to make the first move or at least talk to the girl.