Distant Best Friends and Their Clingy Boyfriends

[ask_lyudmila]

I have a question...my friend and I used to be very close, then she got a boyfriend. He is very clingy and gets mad when he can't see her because she's hanging out with me. I'm always stuck being a third wheel because he always has to come with us wherever we go. How do I confront her about how I'm feeling with out her hating me? She's my best

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[whowillfindme]

They've been dating for six months now...their 6 month anniversary was on my birthday and he kind of made my party less about my sweet 16 and more about their 6 month. That kind of hurt but I got over it. He doesn't have a job...he's a farmer but does chores when my friend is busy...therefore, making it easier for him to spend time with her. I did talk to her last night and she kind of felt the same way. She hates his clingyness(the only thing she hates about him) and when she confronted him about it, he got mad and they got in an argument. That was their first argument ever. Another problem we have is that I'm seeing his friend. Neither of us want to ruin our relationships with them because of how much we like them, but it's harder for her because her boyfriend is so clingy and well my guy is not. He's independent which helps. I'm his first girlfriend as is my friends boyfriends, but the major difference is that my guy actually trusts me...I hate to say it but I truly believe that my friends boyfriend is just afraid that she will