Best thing you can do right now is move on. It's hard as hell, but I hear traveling can be of assistance. You, like me, need perspective on the break up. We need to be detached in order to let things go enough to be of use to the next person we meet and try to work things out with.
I am fortunate to have gotten to the point where I believe that recovery is possible. Or at least, I am open to it. However, I will not do anything to force it. I realize that whenever I did try to be truthful, someone got hurt or ran away.
Lastly, I do not believe that if you've loved someone that love will ever die. I have come to the conclusion that despite however many times I can claim that my love for said person is dead, it just finds new ways of expanding itself and my appreciation for the person grows with time. Replaced are the feelings of isolation with feelings of balance and perspective. It's a hard road to follow, but you must persist.
Yeah.. I was out with a friend of mine last night, and he basically told me the same thing.
Yesterday was the first day that I haven't at least talked to her in anyway, text/phone whatever. I don't know, today I already feel miserable.
I wish I could travel. I wanted to go on a road trip for my 4 day weekend, but my parents are going away and i need to watch the dogs. So I have to be home, sadly.
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I am fortunate to have gotten to the point where I believe that recovery is possible. Or at least, I am open to it. However, I will not do anything to force it. I realize that whenever I did try to be truthful, someone got hurt or ran away.
Lastly, I do not believe that if you've loved someone that love will ever die. I have come to the conclusion that despite however many times I can claim that my love for said person is dead, it just finds new ways of expanding itself and my appreciation for the person grows with time. Replaced are the feelings of isolation with feelings of balance and perspective. It's a hard road to follow, but you must persist.
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Yesterday was the first day that I haven't at least talked to her in anyway, text/phone whatever. I don't know, today I already feel miserable.
I wish I could travel. I wanted to go on a road trip for my 4 day weekend, but my parents are going away and i need to watch the dogs. So I have to be home, sadly.
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