Homecoming

[athas]

So I came home from my last trip, and boy was I ready to come home, I don't like spending a week at a time from home, it gets too long

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[inmyfantasies]

Sounds like you need to go away more often ;) Just teasing. I am in my late 30's and I too have relearned how to give a great BJ to my husband. It amazes him how well I do it ;) Give your wife some time. Do you talk to her about it? Let her know how much pleasure it gives you. Lack of communication was our problem a few years ago too, amazingly we found out we enjoyed the same things and like to experiment from time to time.

[athas]

We have certainly talked about it. She knows it is by far my favorite thing, but she doesn't like doing at all, says it makes her feel uncomfortable, so she doesn't do it much at all (Probably 6-8 times total in our 9 year marriage, most of that during our first year of marriage, and never to orgasm).

I want to experiment, she really doesn't, at least not much. She has come to like some anal play in the last year or so, and thats new for us, and I am happy she does, since I am really into it. (I have sortof a fetish for buttplugs, heh, not that she is ready to use one, I've showed her some and asked). But she did show some interest in the anal beads, so that and a nice vibrator will be our next toy purchases.

[inmyfantasies]

Sorry I haven't replied sooner, been on vacation :)

But interesting, we haven't been that experiental, I'm more afraid to try anal items then him.