First, because the lack of interest presents a challenge. People want what they can't have, or feel like it will take effort to gain. Not that people are necessarily willing to put in the actual effort...
Second, what a woman sees as "showing interest" is not what men see. If the exact words are not spoken, then translation occurs. Interview both sides and you will get two TOTALLY different accounts of what was implied.
Totally off the subject...
anonymous
March 28 2006, 12:55:08 UTC
Nicole,
I just dropped in to see how things were going with you. Sorry to hear about the whole "dating" thing. It's a hard thing, keeping a relationship going. That's what you're looking for, right? Someone who will love you?
I don't know if this will make you feel better or worse, but it makes me feel better to tell you. I'm still thinking about you...in fact, sometimes I can't help it. This may not be the love you are looking for, but it does mean that I care for you, and what happens to you.
You were always so fun to be with. I really hope you fall into the arms of a damn good man who will really- I mean REALLY- love you.
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First, because the lack of interest presents a challenge. People want what they can't have, or feel like it will take effort to gain. Not that people are necessarily willing to put in the actual effort...
Second, what a woman sees as "showing interest" is not what men see. If the exact words are not spoken, then translation occurs. Interview both sides and you will get two TOTALLY different accounts of what was implied.
Those are the most common.
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I just dropped in to see how things were going with you. Sorry to hear about the whole "dating" thing. It's a hard thing, keeping a relationship going. That's what you're looking for, right? Someone who will love you?
I don't know if this will make you feel better or worse, but it makes me feel better to tell you. I'm still thinking about you...in fact, sometimes I can't help it. This may not be the love you are looking for, but it does mean that I care for you, and what happens to you.
You were always so fun to be with. I really hope you fall into the arms of a damn good man who will really- I mean REALLY- love you.
Cheers,
Keith
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