I think that to let somebody be wrong (especially one who thinks they are right) without making any attempt at letting them know or trying to change their mind is one of the most graceful things you can do.
I couldn't agree with you more. My boyfriend and I disagree on a lot of different topics. I can see where he is coming from and he can see where I am coming from. My problem is that when we are discussing/arguing I always need to point out the moment when he says something that is incorrect. Then he gets mad because I am interrupting but my response is always "you can't just say shit that isn't true and not expect me to point it out as it happens! I am not able to hear the rest of your argument because your point is flawed." Instead of just letting him make his point and agree to disagree. I need to learn to have more grace in all of my arguments. I find that I allow myself to get hung up and then miss out on his explanation.
I do this to you quite a bit also, I am sorry. It's almost involuntary. I need to work on being a better listener:)
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I do this to you quite a bit also, I am sorry. It's almost involuntary. I need to work on being a better listener:)
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