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Dec 11, 2005 16:22

okay my weekend was okay. the issue of trust is tricky. i can personally count the people on one hand that i cant trust. its sad but a harsh reality. i cant go through life thinking i cant trust people though, i will be miserable. the best thing i can do is just carefully pick the people to trust. most of the time you cant depend on people, you can ( Read more... )

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aurelia_la_roux December 12 2005, 00:57:19 UTC

that is so true. i think most people do have trust issues. it keeps them safe. it is wise to pick your friends carefully. hmm...:) better days are in store for you.

aubrey44 December 14 2005, 00:19:58 UTC

yeah it is usually a safe issue from the world. :D

khoup December 12 2005, 02:24:39 UTC

Trust is always a sticky issue. It's the one things that takes so much time to build up, but is gone in an instant. And you're right that you can't go through life not trusting people. I would trust people, but I would always question, it's not wrong to question, it's just what smart people do, it's how we stay alive. It's a lot different than faith. Faith is something you can't control, this is something we can control, it's our choice. =)

Depending on people...you can't do that until you yourself do it. If you want people to be there for you, you have to be there for them. If you want people to do things for you, then you have to be willing to do it yourself first...because I personally love to help people who are willing to help themselves first. Not those that just sit around and want to be helped, so called 'leechers.'

aubrey44 December 14 2005, 00:27:57 UTC

yeah i agree with helping others who are willing to help themselves. i think its sad when u help others at their time of crisis and yet they cant help u when u need it. its life, but so disappointing. :/

Re: awww krsytle! i heart you sweety! khoup December 14 2005, 21:31:03 UTC

I don't mind helping people even when they don't help me, but I don't want to 'control' anyone's lives. I want them to use that their brain of theirs. And the most important things is I don't want them to build a dependance on others, relying on others to do things for them because they don't want to do things themselves.

Re: awww krsytle! i heart you sweety! aubrey44 December 16 2005, 23:03:08 UTC

yea i dont mind helping others either. :) when they depend on others to do things, they will nvr know how to do things for themselves.

awww krsytle! i heart you sweety! pinkishmeadows December 12 2005, 06:14:53 UTC

my dearest krystle! ur too cute. i agree that it is very sad that are some people that just can't be trusted. i know exactly how you feel, i am not one to trust people very easliy and i know that it can be annoying sometimes.. especially when you feel like there is nobody you can talk to about whats going on because your not sure if they will break your trust or not. im here to say im here or you and im not one to share secrets. if you ever need anything i am here!

Re: awww krsytle! i heart you sweety! aubrey44 December 14 2005, 00:31:08 UTC

ur too kool mel, and yea its hard for me to confide in others when i really need to, cause of the blabbing to others kind of people. i hate it that when i have things on my mind, i cant talk to anyone but my journal. but its hard to be able to spill ur guts to someone and not worry if they judge u. u know? but i know i can trust u, ur one of the kool exceptions from the chicas. lol ur a peach! :D

falkry December 13 2005, 00:55:53 UTC

believe me, i only trust those i love. I say i trust ppl, but its a white lie. I have a very hard time trusting ppl. Trust and honesty are two very important virtues that ppl tend to neglect and destroy. The world is corrupted. Finding good ppl is rare. Its so sad how ppl of this society today is falling apart... Im going to be the best father there is, i dont want my children to live a crapass life. I noe it will be hard to protect them from the world, but im going to make sure they can grow up to take care of themselves. My father says that u can only trust urself. no1 else. especially in america he says. He says every1 here is F***ed up. America runs on vanity and money. Once i graduate college hes leaving. But i get to go with him for a lil while. Im going to visit my dads parents (if they're still alive) and go shopping there for a while. THen swing around to Australia then Japan.

aubrey44 December 14 2005, 00:33:30 UTC

kool exciting plans! i like how u say "i am going to go shopping." lol but yea the world is sadly corrupted. "(