I just wanted to mention that the information i am looking for regarding sex and memory is not what you remember, but just how much. I don't tend to remember things regarding sex
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It has been since at least 1999 since I have sex with my wife (or anyone else for that matter) and it would all be foreign to me. She did not sex enjoyable and I told her to not do anything she is not comfortable with.
As to how I deal with it, we'll just say I do not go out of my wedding vows and leave it at that.
Melissa I think knows this but if not, it probably is not a shock to her either.
While it would be nice to be sexually compatible, it is not one of those things I knew and my heart is not so hard that I will leave her for that, or engage in sexual relationships outside of my vows.
Regarding the other, I remember a lot of them. Not all but then again I was not very experienced to start with.
And being much younger (just turned 49) my memory was a lot better. Try asking me what I had for lunch on some days and I won't be able to tell you. But sex, even bad sex from when I was 17 and 18 I can remember pretty darn well. LOL :)
Rambo yells at night so starting last night he and I slept with my bedroom door closed. We've not shared a bed, Becky and I, since 2001. Why? I kick and flail in my sleep and her biggest fear is getting a head blow inwhich she loses her vision.
Unfortunately the head blow happened one night while I was asleep when my right arm flung out and connected with her forehead. :(
Can't blame her. If I had horrible vision in one eye only and no hope for it getting better I would kick me out of the bed as well. Since moving to Knoxville we've had separate bedrooms because her schedule, being retired, and mine, still working, do not mesh for bed times.
Find someone you love, care about and cannot see your future without them being there (in a good way please) and you will understand how much love and devotion I have for Becky.
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It has been since at least 1999 since I have sex with my wife (or anyone else for that matter) and it would all be foreign to me. She did not sex enjoyable and I told her to not do anything she is not comfortable with.
As to how I deal with it, we'll just say I do not go out of my wedding vows and leave it at that.
Melissa I think knows this but if not, it probably is not a shock to her either.
While it would be nice to be sexually compatible, it is not one of those things I knew and my heart is not so hard that I will leave her for that, or engage in sexual relationships outside of my vows.
Regarding the other, I remember a lot of them. Not all but then again I was not very experienced to start with.
And being much younger (just turned 49) my memory was a lot better. Try asking me what I had for lunch on some days and I won't be able to tell you. But sex, even bad sex from when I was 17 and 18 I can remember pretty darn well. LOL :)
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"She did not find sex enjoyable..."
< sigh >
Never get old. Getting old is the pits.
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Rambo yells at night so starting last night he and I slept with my bedroom door closed. We've not shared a bed, Becky and I, since 2001. Why? I kick and flail in my sleep and her biggest fear is getting a head blow inwhich she loses her vision.
Unfortunately the head blow happened one night while I was asleep when my right arm flung out and connected with her forehead. :(
Can't blame her. If I had horrible vision in one eye only and no hope for it getting better I would kick me out of the bed as well. Since moving to Knoxville we've had separate bedrooms because her schedule, being retired, and mine, still working, do not mesh for bed times.
Find someone you love, care about and cannot see your future without them being there (in a good way please) and you will understand how much love and devotion I have for Becky.
Take care,
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