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[auntjiffy]

So Jeff and I have been together again now for about a week.  I use the phrase "been together" loosely.  There's a relationship, but no "I love yous" and I don't initiate kisses on the lips to judge how frequently he actually seeks out that interaction.  Well, he was still writing "I love yous" in emails to me before this, but I haven't heard it or

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[dizzyblonde30]

*HUGE HUGS

[auntjiffy]

Yeah; I basically take a peak out on the job market probably every 4-6 weeks or so anyway. Sometimes I search the housing market. I know I'm in trouble if I move. I also know I'm miserable staying

[dizzyblonde30]

I bet you'll be glad when finals are done!

Expecting to be treated well and to be respected isn't much to ask at all.

You do have high expectations of others but you demand the same of yourself, nothing wrong with that. When the right guy finally digs out his map and heads your way, you'll know it even if he doesn't meet everything on your list of that perfect guy, you'll see what I mean.

Don't let Jeff walk all over you b/c he now knows you don't expect anything, you deserve so much better than settling just to share time with someone.

Things will fall into place in their own time and way..Like I always say it's just so darn hard 'waiting' for that to happen.

[dizzyblonde30]

Ugh..How come I always feel like I sound so preachy when I give advice? Ick!